Not all of our qualities are admirable. In fact, some embarrass us. There is nothing preventing us from developing more positive characteristics, but the inspiration to do so often wanes. It might be more reasonable to strengthen the good ones with more frequent use and learn to love the rest as evidence of our very human nature.

We are complex personalities. We have been years in development, and we aren't finished yet. Each day gives us opportunities to demonstrate a whole range of qualities. We can accept each personal trait that doesn't mean we have to love every aspect of what we say or do. Nor does it mean we should never try to change.

But taking our life, our behavior, more in stride will give us the heart to change what we can. I am both good and bad. If I want to accentuate my positive traits, it is up to me to practice them today.

From the book "A Woman's Spirit" by Karen Casey